Tuesday, October 11, 2005


Last Saturday, we were needling a friend about this girl that he was kinda seeing. When we asked him what the matter was, he admitted that the reason it would probably not go anywhere was because the girl wasn't "warm", and "warmth" was one of the main things that he looked for in a girl.

It was only last night, when I started to really think about it, that I realized that "warmth" is very important to me as well. It really is kind of a big deal.

It reminds me of this girl I know. She's smart, she's lovely, and she's friendly. I even have a little innocent crush on her. The thing is though, she doesn't exude that kind of "warmth" (or at least not toward me, heh). We're friends, but I never feel comfortable with or close enough to her to, say, ask her to read a draft of a story I'm writing, or share with her anecdotes about my sister, that sort of thing.

I know that it's unfair and totally subjective, but it's how I feel, and I'm sure it's the sort of matter that's at work with a million other guys intimidated with a million other girls, no matter how smart, lovely, or friendly they may be. Sad, but true.


I think that's something I may have to work on myself. =/


zino ito?? :P


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Warm, warmth...ah one of the characteristics embedded in a Paulinian...the other two are active and simple. Believe it.


i'm a little confused. how exactly does one exude warmth?



i don't know exactly how... it's something people just sense, i guess. either way, it's probably not as big a deal for other people as it is for me


akala ko napag-aaralan eh. tipong may manual, "how to exude warmth." hehe. mag-aaral na sana ko :))


apparently, exuding warmth is a matter of clothing...


lols @ alekos


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